I guess I’m discovering your major problem. Hanging on. You don’t accept the truth and you still believe that you’re holding something, fighting for something that has already gone a long time ago. And surely it’d be frightening for you to say that, and as I’ve said, you haven’t been able to accept that. It’s like you’re feeling that’s impossible, that something about you might still be into him. The excuses turn into the main cause of you tireless waiting. “He´s not sure and he doesn’t want to hurt me” “He wants me but it’s hard for him to dare” “He´s with another girls just because of distraction”. No. If he doesn’t call, if he doesn’t come up, if he doesn’t show anything, it’s because he doesn’t feel anything. And he doesn’t want to feel it neither. It’s because he has already closed a chapter in which you had put suspensive dots and you’re trying to continue it alone. And if he’s with another girls is because he’s remaking his life again, and however it was, he went on. That’s something that you should do too in spite of the fact that it’s hard and despite all the tears that might be falling down round your cheeks while reading this. Because you’re not going to reach anywhere with him.